Monday, January 05, 2009
Sigh, the excitement has already died down thanks to mum again.
She is thinking that we will only move in after our customary wedding and leave the house empty. She has this thinking that we're not officially married till we have the dinner and not to stay together.
We need my birth cert, her IC and her divorce cert to submit to HDB first and she is complaining why so troublesome, need for what, she no time to go find etc.
She is insisting that before we step into the new house when the current owners move out, we must do those "traditioncal Chinese customs" thingy like stepping over the burning charcoal, sprinkle rice and salt, offer jossticks blah blah. I was like what the hell? I'm a free thinker and Hubby is a Christian loh.
Arghz, feeling troubled liao and we haven't start preparing, sourcing and arranging anything at all like ROM, wedding package, where to hold it etc. I'm kindda feeling upset right now and holding back tears cos of the problems I'm facing with her.
Only positive thing is Hubby has told his dad about us buying the flat and we have his blessings.
We really need a lot of well wishes, luck and cash flow now, pls keep us in your prayers... =)
Brenbren at 11:57 PM
