Leo born on Friday the 13th
Mild tempered when not working
Lioness when workaholic mode on
Mrs Lim as of 28/06/2009!

Test entry from iPhone!



I need a change of blogskin.. My butterfly has gone missing.. =(

Sigh, but kindda lazy/busy to do it... I am super fussy abt it, must be nice, preferably purple wih butterflies and enuff space for photos etc...

Past 1-2 weeks have been having food gathering with gfs (Ling, Mich, Eve & ML), I dare not weigh myself liao... But, I really had lots of fun with them, jokes and laughter are always in the air. Anyway, how not to have laughter with Hubby around? Lol...

Derek sent us a email today abt horoscope. It works like this:

- There are groups number 1-7 and each group states ur birth date.
- Check which group you belong to and refer to the corresponding description and find out who is ur perfect/best/gd match.

After reading Hubby's and my horoscope with BX, turns out that me and Hubby are each other's perfect match! keke... The description was like 70% accurate abt our character, but the English could definitely be improved on loh.

P.S. Derek and BX were perfect matches too.. =p



Its been some time since I last blogged and now its 2010 already!

2009 was a special year as it marked our 7th yr together and passed the "7th yr itch", keke. It was also the year we got our own house and became official husband and wife!

Very touched by dear friends who took time to attend our solemnization ceremony though it was Sunday and probably most people's Family Day. Not forgetting of cos their generosity which helped us a lot!

2009 has also been a tough year with stuff at home and one of the worst clashes with mum. The hearing is on 5th and 20th Jan, hopefully we will win the case. It will mean a lot to win becos it might solve most of the problems and save a lot of $.

More importantly, I really do wanna concentrate on preparing our AD and save money.

I know for sure the 4-5K that we have spend or will be spending is not recoverable at all and paid out of me and Hubby's pocket. But I guess I have no choice at all.

I really, really hope that 2010 is and will be a better year for not only us and also our frens.

Happy New Year!



Nope, I didn't get it. I am half disappointed and half relieved. Disappointed becos it could have been a good opportunity and great move from current status. Relieved becos it was kindda stressful going through all those.

Thanks dear friends for being supportive, giving me encouragement and cheering me up. =)

Recently, I was rather upset over some stuff and even cried over it. I wish things were simpler and not so complicated in this world. Perhaps I am too soft and weak, perhaps I was just trying too hard but whatever it is, I wonder why can't things just be simpler?

I'm not trying to be a saint or Miss Nice but in my world, I just want everyone to be happy and get along with each other. My only comfort is Hubby xin tengs me a lot and the rare true friends gave me advice too.

On a happier note, its 4 more days to our 89th mth pak tor anni and 6 days to our 5th ROM mth anni. As of today, we have been together for 2,706 days. Sounds impressive huh? Lol...



Yipee, I have a new wallet finally!!

My current wallet is a long black Pierre Cardin leather wallet which Hubby got me years back. This year, the photo display part came apart and after so many years, its slightly worn out. So I had been thinking of getting a new wallet but could not decide what to get.

Moreover it was Hubby's gift to me so couldn't bear to change it. Then, Hubby said his customer was going USA and can buy for me if she's free. So I showed Hubby which one I wanted. But initially I didn't want to get it yet cos just spent $300+ on the tests recently.

But Hubby said he'll pay for it, take it as my early X'mas present. On Wed, I met up with Gracie and the gang for dinner and Hubby gave me the wallet (though its the wrong design, haha)!

He had lied to me and got it himself in one of the Coach shops. So now I'm a happy and proud owner of my Purple Coach wallet!


Was browsing Coach website to see if they have any new nice bags and saw this. Yeah, its purple again... =p But can't decide if I should get cos its USD198.00, kindda ex for a small bag and I can probably only use it during weekends, not for work.

So shall save money first and see how unless there's like a very heavy discount cos not very practical.







Not many people know about it yet, only people I trust enough and close enough. Nothing is confirmed yet and still in process.

I just hope that everything turns out well in the end. Wish me good luck and pray hard for me. =)



Its been a very bad week for me. I am so upset that I am crying almost everyday in the shower, before I sleep and even once at work.

She's being hysterical again and we have not spoke for 1week or so. A lot of times I just to want to cry out loud, be a coward and just hide in Hubby's arms, ignoring the world outside me. But I know he probably feels as terrible as me and I have really been a big burden to him.

I even had thoughts of splitting up because I was so affected and stressed.

All I ever wanted was never riches, just a normal, simple and loving family. But each time, I am branded as unfilial and a bad daughter because of money. In her eyes, I have never given her enough money, comfort and never does enough.

She counts and remembers every single cent that I have given and how much she had spent on me. She keeps in mind of the things that I have not done sometimes and forgets all the times when we did things for her.

Both her relationships failed, but yet this is what she is doing to me. It seems that she will only be happy if we remain single forever and give her every single cent we earn.

Yeah, my sis is now working and giving her the entire pay which is more than my $500 per month. But, I have a house and bills to pay for, commitments and expenditures etc. Why can't she think of these? Moreover now though I have more expenses (house installments, furniture, rings etc), I am still giving her the same amount and not less.

It seems like most good and wonderful things always happen to others and never to me. The best I have ever got is probably only my hubby. But yet, she is trying to take that away from me using any method she can.

I feel happy for Cammie now that Baby Isabelle has finally arrived to say hello to the world and Kristine is getting married next year. I sometimes wonder if I will ever get to be happy again...

Will the customary wedding really come? Will we have our own family? When will I ever be able to stop living in fear and get out of this cage?

I really have no answers for all these and I am feeling more and more tired each day. With each day passing, I drag my feet home as late as I can without exceeding the curfew. Bit by bit, I feel my courage slipping and wonder if I will one day succumb to her demands? I start to fear that Hubby might eventually get sick of these too and give up. I start to wonder if I am jinxed?

What have I done wrong exactly? Am I really such a terrible person that she says each time? I am really doubting myself each day. I feel like just hiding from the world and from everything else that stabs my heart each time. I felt so upset that I really thought of dying a few days back... Even as I type this, tears are gathering again.

Please free me from misery, sufferings and these totures... I really had enough...